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Monthly Archives: June 2017

Why Keep No Contact Rule?

For starters, you keep from causing more damage to the already emotional breakup. Breakups are usually very hard to deal with when both parties are still feeling the anger and bitterness. If you have to speak with the person, it’s hard to deal with the emotions that you need to deal with. You may say or do things that you’ll regret later on.

By seeing your ex continuously, you are prone to make even bigger mistakes including desperate behaviors such as drunken dialing and text message terrorism. Be sure that you have little to no contact with your ex after your breakup. If you have to see or talk to them because of work or other reasons, be civil and kind but do not get personal with them.

When you don’t speak to one another, you are actually helping to deal with the already messy emotions. You aren’t constantly in one another’s face which means you can work on your own personal matters. When you do this, a reunion can go much smoother. This helps if this is your ultimate goal.

When you and your ex have had this time apart and have worked on your own personal demons, when you see each other next, you can deal with those issues when both of you have cool down. This is a benefit to the no contact rule. When you don’t have to see each other, you can plan how you will get your ex back. This also gives your ex some time to realize how much they miss you being in their lives. In the long run, it is a win/win situation. They won’t feel that they miss you if you never left.

As you see, this no contact rule is vital to the success of getting your ex back. It can be hard to win back your ex if you don’t leave him or her to sort through their feelings for you. You must also sort through yours. You may also be shocked to learn how you actually feel about them during this month away.

 

Things to Do When There Is No Romance In Relationships

For all genuine relationships to kick off there is romance involved and, it is until later in the relationship that the romance is lost. Many people who are serious do not get up and leave. There are very many people who loose the romance and, you are not the only one. Relationships and more so marriage is a long journey that will inform you that romance is hard work. It is something that you need to revitalize and do often. There are several things that you can do to bring back the love that was once felt. The first thing is to find out whether there is a problem. This is because strife and romance cannot exist together. You need to find out what you did or what your partner did to bring you to that dry status. There are very many causes of disagreements and, funny enough, one partner might not be aware of the problem.

Burying your head in the sand will not do you any good. You need to identify your problem so that you can deal with it. You will have to sit down with your partner and, in a calm manner, try to solve your problems. If there is absolutely no romance in your relationship, take all the time you need. While talking, you need to have an open mind and be ready to forgive. Having good will in a relationship is all that matters. This way, you will be willing to do anything to make things right. Honesty will be the best policy and, there is nothing more essential than this. You will get to examine your heart and give all you have in this regard. To deal with a state of no romance, it is crucial to make it a priority. This is because many people who are breaking up today, no longer have the good will to deal with problems in their marriage. Go back to the beginning of your relationship and try to recapture that love. You do not have to pretend but, you can learn to recreate it. Sometimes, people will find a love that is even greater than the one present in the beginning.

Once you have settled your problems, the issue of no romance has been halved. If you are on a similar page with your spouse, you will begin to talk. Talk is essential in romance. Not just the usual talk but, the talk that comes from the heart. When a man and a woman who love each other talk, there is a sense of magic that brings harmony to them. This is only the beginning. Give yourself to romance as well as to your spouse, nature will take its course. Make sure that you resolve your troubles once they have occurred. Pilling up problems and unresolved issues is the killer in most relationships. Nobody is perfect and losing romance is not a problem unique to you. It is the willingness to recapture love that counts. Take time to be alone with the person you love. This way, you will show the world what really matters to you. Make your spouse feel special and, you will always get back the romance.

 

Why You Do Not Want Your Ex Back?

1. The Changes

It’s all well and good for you to change your ways or perspective but what about your ex? Did they actually say if you change this, that or the other thing about yourself they will return? Even if they did, for things to truly work your ex has to undergo a little transformation also. Are they willing to do that?

2. Complete the Voyage?

Once you start to make the changes you have to keep at it. You may decide half way through the journey that you are not that bad. Sure you want your ex back but for the most part you like who you are. You don’t want to change that much.

3. Walking In Circles

Even with the new attitude and willingness on both sides to make a clean start, in essence you are going over the same ground. You and your ex may add some fresh new touches to the relationship but consider the fact that a lot of the dynamics are already in place. It may not be long before you both find yourself back in the same old situation no matter how hard you tried (or pretended) to give it a different slant.

4. The Big Big World

Look it was wonderful while it lasted but even when trying to get your ex back, the thought will probably cross your mind on occasion that maybe there is someone new out there who you can connect with ten times better than you ever did with your ex. Anything is possible. When times were good you and your ex clicked but who’s to say you cannot find that with someone else? Sometimes the only reason people want their ex back is they fear the unknown.