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Monthly Archives: May 2017

Men Dump Women – Myths And Facts

Nagging

While many surveys have shown that women think nagging is one of the primary reason why men dump women the fact is not so. Men may feel irritated by nagging but nagging can never be the real reason for someone to dump a women. Rather nagging is just a result of some other core issues.

Pressure of Commitment

One of the most dreaded reasons for this is the pressure of commitment. When to look for commitment from a man is a very tricky issue as far as women are concerned. The best is to take the relationship ahead step by step and let the feelings and issues settle by themselves. If you are too early in demanding commitment, it may scare the guy off.

Needy

This may turn out to be a reason why men dump women. If you cannot take care of yourself without him how would he think you can take care of him when he needs you the most. Men look for women who can support them when they need it and women who are self assured and confident in life do get more respect and love from their men.

Overbearing

Women need to understand that a man is not looking for a second mother when he thinks of a woman in his life. If he could come this far without your strict control on him he can do so even when you have come into his life. No man likes a tight leash around his neck. Give him the freedom he deserves and don’t try and meddle too much in his life. A big reason for why men dump their women is because the women are too overbearing on them.

Physique

How a woman looks does not really contribute to why men dump women. That could be an issue for a teenager but not for men who understand the value of relationships. A man will loves you for who you are and will not be an issue if you were to put on a little weight. However, it is good for women to try and be as beautiful and attractive as possible for the men because this gives the men a feeling that you really desire to be with him but it surely doesn’t mean only your appearance would matter in keeping him with you.

 

Why Forget Your Ex?

# Mental Health

You will definitely loose your mental poise as constant thoughts about your ex keep haunting you. Mental peace is very important in a man’s life and someone who looses it will be distracted and will not be able to concentrate on any other activities thus forget your ex to get back your mental balance.

# Productivity

Thoughts of your ex are like a computer virus. It will not allow you to perform your normal functions and disrupt your whole personal, social and business well being. Your creativity and productivity will suffer and will be stranded in life unable to work, sleep or even smile.

# Bad Motivation Strategy

Constant thoughts about your ex is a bad motivation strategy as these thoughts only increase the negativity and stops all positive thoughts and actions in one’s life. Moving forward and away from the past is the best motivation which will benefit you and your purpose in life. Think ahead of a much more fruitful relationship rather than brooding on the past breakup.

# To Be Happy

Serotonin a chemical is secreted every time you lodge good thoughts in your mind. Remembering the best moments in life and always finding ways to keep oneself happy can be highly beneficial to the overall health. After all we all strive and work hard to make ourselves and our family happy.

# To Avoid Depressing and Frustrating Thoughts

Depression and frustration can prove to be very dangerous over a period of time. When you constantly think about your ex you feel more depressed and frustrated thinking about what happened. Depression can take a toll on one’s physical condition too if not treated in time. Many physical ailments find their roots in psychological factors in a man’s life. Suicidal tendency might also arise and many might even want to go back home without much treatment.

When you constantly think about your ex you shun all others who are interested to share their lives with you. It reduces the opportunity to meet new people and finding new and better love. Brooding over spoilt milk will never get you anywhere in life. Stop worrying start thinking positively and don’t ever compromise on your self esteem. Forget your ex is what you’ll need now. But try to reason out the advantages on loosing this relationship. Think ahead and always stay positive.

 

Tips to Forget an Ex Girlfriend

This seems like a million dollar question as the man who was totally dependant on the girl feels great pain and is totally lost. Let’s try to analyze this situation a little deeper. So your girl friend left and isn’t bothered about how you feel or what you do without her. But you feel unhappy, depressed and feel that your life stopped without her. Your whole world revolved around her and now it stopped.

The problem basically is with you as you are not able to cope with the situation you find yourself in. In fact no body can ever fill up the void in your life. You felt wonderful being with a woman as she filled up the neediness in you. So when you lose her you feel empty and unneeded.

Stop depending on others to make you feel good and happy. Happiness is in you rather than in women you date. Inner happiness is a strong media which helps balance your life in all situations. Don’t expect others to approve you and stop looking for comfort in others or in a relationship. Control your life by controlling your thoughts and actions. Take charge of your life by turning away from things or people who don’t need you or feel like being with you. When they don’t need you, decide to shut them off from your life too.

You are more important than your ex and so take care of what you do and how you feel rather than think and act according to your ex. Rather than pondering on ‘how to forget an ex girl friend?’ Think about ‘how to get another girl friend?’ take life lightly don’t be serious about what has already happened. Bring the affirmation into your mind that she is no more and try to shake yourself off her memory and start looking around for the best person yet to enter your life. Move on in life and don’t rot and stale by sticking to your girl friends memories.