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Monthly Archives: April 2017

Guide to Forget Your Ex Fast

Any experience which gives you pleasure or left an impression in your mind stays as a memory and you can recall them as and when you need to relive those moments. So drop the basic idea that you can forget your ex so easily. Next think of how to change your attitude regarding your ex as that will help you accept and shift your thoughts to more fruitful and positive living. But if you are lost or cannot think of anything positive when you are hurt to the core we are glad to offer some valuable tips and ideas to help you through hard times.

First bring about a conviction in your mind that you cannot forget your ex as much as you cannot forget the happy moments you shared together. Secondly analyze why you want to forget your ex. You might find 101 reasons like getting back your peace of mind or getting rid of the frustration or depression etc. identifying the goal which you wish to achieve on forgetting your ex will give you a focus of what you want to achieve. You can work on attaining this goal through other means which will give you a total satisfaction and relive you from remorse.

Try shifting your focus from the past events and start thinking of beautiful things like a clear blue sky or a wide ocean etc. this will change the way you feel as thoughts affect our feelings. When you shift the thoughts to more positive things you will start feeling very positive in life and this is a magic wand which can transform your whole life.

Even scientifically your brain will release chemicals whenever you think and so the way you think will directly be responsible for the type of chemical released in your brain which directly affects the way you think and act. Come to accept that your relationship is over and don’t ever brood or feel gloomy of something which is past history. Look forward and start reliving your life once again free from any bonding or emotional hang-ups. How to forget your ex thus depends on the right attitude you take and the positive thoughts you possess. Decide to have an independent trouble free peaceful life now and see the change blooming around you to make you feel the way you want.

 

Why Younger Men Like Older Women?

1. Attraction

While some may find it odd that a young man surrounded by girls his age would find an older woman attractive. The answer is quite simple. Many of them are attractive.

While the media and fashion world may continue to hold up the twenty something girl as the standard of beauty, it has already dawned on many young guys that the bandwidth they are using is way too narrow and has been for years. Sometimes a woman in her twenties is just so-so when it comes to looks but for whatever reason blossoms into a real beauty when she gets older.

2. Maturity

At times, the communication younger men are looking for requires something a little deeper than what ladies in his age range may be able to provide. This is not meant as a stereotype for all younger women; particularly since girls mature faster than boys in most instances.

Yet older women by default bring more life experiences into the relationship. Being with someone who has been there and done that, yet at the same time can nurture the growth of their partner without trying to be in command of the relationship can be an exhilarating ride.

3. Comfort

No matter how society today forces young people to grow up fast, there is still a lot they do not know. Combining that with peer pressure can really ratchet up the stress level. This rings especially true when it comes to intimacy. You are supposed to know what to do but you don’t because you may not have much understanding in knowing exactly what you are supposed to do.

This is another area where the life experiences of an older woman can be a major benefit. It’s not that you want to be treated like someone who just fell off the turnip truck or even that you need someone to “take control.” But using their experience to establish a comfort level can be a real ego booster for both parties.

There are probably an almost unlimited number of reasons why an older woman and younger man decide to have a relationship. The thing to remember is they are more than likely the same reasons older men go with younger women or for that matter a relationship between two people who are identical in age.

 

Mistakes that Ruin Your Chance with Your Ex

When your senses are askew, it’s natural to act on your first impulses but it’s really the wrong thing to do. However, if you want another chance with your ex, there are a couple of things you should not do. They are: be desperate and over aggressive.

# Desperation

If you act like you are desperate to get your ex back, it’s actually a tactic that backfires. All you come off as is clingy or needy. These tend to make an ex want to run away rather come back into your arms. It may be difficult to accept but it is actually the real truth. If you want another chance with your ex, avoid acting desperate and be yourself.

# Over Aggressive

You have to remember that your feelings may be hurt, your ex has his or her feelings too. If you want another chance with your ex, then you should avoid words of resentment and anger. Those unsympathetic words or even actions will send your ex running for the hills. Wouldn’t you run too? So don’t be surprised if this happens to you.

You may not realize it but the choices you make above are not done intentionally. Rather, they are done out of hurt, spite and anger. Unfortunately, they can ruin having another chance with your ex. If you really want another chance with your ex, you need to keep your feelings in check and devise some sort of plan to win your ex’s heart once again.